CAP Selling (Caring About People) Part I
Tuesday, September 28th, 2010So many times when I discuss the issue of Caring About People with individuals or groups, many people think ‘what a basic fundamental’ and ‘how hard can it be.’ If you are feeling the same way, you couldn’t be more right. It is absolutely a simple process; however, very few people know how to accomplish it with sincerity, integrity and grace in their daily life. Caring About People is not just a business issue it is a life issue. You have to make a serious decision to modify your daily behavior.
The Three Components
Understand that all people are made up of three main components, mind, body, and soul. Whenever a person is lacking in anyone of these areas they inevitably will lack in every area of their life. You have to become a highly sophisticated question asker in your life. People who think they know how to ask questions can always get better and people who think they are good listeners can always improve. The art of questioning is completely reliant on the art of listening.
Observation
The first lesson of Caring About People is based simply on observation.
• Get a notebook to jot down observatory notes. You can utilize a personal computer to keep notes however, you need to be in a position to jot down notes throughout the day when you observe human behavior I am about to describe. (more…)